The idea of a first date can send down nervousness and anxiety as the thoughts of how nice and good you’re looking and smelling, your speaking skills and so many other factors can overwhelm one
First dates can stand as a foundation for future succeeding dates and first impression, like they say, actually matters a lot. With respect to that, here are a few things you should abide to:
1. Don’t talk about the past
It’s not a good idea to dig up your date’s past. Even if you’re knee-deep into a conversation, don’t mention any past relationships of your own or any ex problems. Try getting to know about the person’s interests and likes, and woo them romantically.
2. Don’t ever be late to a First date
Believe it or not, punctuality is attractive. It’s important that you leave your home at least some time ago so that you don’t end up being late to your date. You can turn up early and keep some snacks or drinks ready on the table to put up a good impression.
3. Don’t use your phone except there’s an unavoidable emergency
Except there’s an unavoidable emergency, using your phone on your date is a terrible idea. Don’t deny it; you would feel irritated seeing your date answer continuous calls or texts and vice versa. You should give time to only that person during the date and not let distractions bother you.
4. Don’t control any conversations
Don’t make it all about yourself. Listen to your date partner about what they have to say. Ask them about their hobbies, likes and dislikes and just enjoy the time. Avoid talking about serious matters like marriage, children, settling down etc.
5. Don’t overindulge in a First date
Avoid drinking up too much as it will make you lose control and be sloppy. It’s better to show the organized part of you on the date rather than displaying all your messy habits at once. And with time or if there’s a second date, you can be more carefree than before.
6. Be polite to service people
Avoid being rude to service people like waiters, drivers, cleaners, security. Understand that they are only doing their job and if any mistake, politely call their attention or give your suggested corrections
7. Wear comfortable outfits to a First date
Be sure to always show up in very comfortable pieces of clothings to avoid any form of discomfort